Teaching is the Most Toxic Profession I Know
by Anonymous Teacher - posted October 21, 2019

We tell women (and men) that if someone hits you, screams at you, tells you that they're going to kill you, tells you they're going to bring a gun and shoot you, steals from you, destroys your things, threatens your friends, curses at you, mocks you, makes fun of your physical appearance, GET HELP. RUN AWAY. IT IS NOT OKAY. LEAVE THE ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. CUT TIES.

YET when a student does any of the above to a teacher, we don't acknowledge it as a red flag, we give them no consequences, we allow it to continue without any regard to a teacher's well-being, safety or mental health.

In such toxic situations, we continue to ask teachers to show up with a smile on their face, ignore the issues, reward dangerous and toxic behavior and do as your told.

Teaching is the most toxic profession I know of.

I am so SICK and disgusted of seeing young, fresh, energetic, bubbly, WONDERFUL teachers think that being assaulted at their workplace is OKAY.

I am so SICK and disgusted of seeing experienced, wise, INCREDIBLE seasoned teachers think that being assaulted at their workplace is OKAY.

I love all my students. I love the students with trauma. I love the students with mental illness. I love the difficult students. I love the violent students....

because I'm a teacher and my heart is made of glitter and marshmallows and happiness and rainbows. Loving little people with abandon is what I freaking do.

But sometimes, loving someone looks like setting boundaries. Consequences. Hard conversations. Seeking additional support. Reporting dangerous behavior. Standing your ground. Finding alternative placements.

Stop worrying if you're tenured.

Stop saying “they're just kids”.

Stop being scared of the parents or of administration.

Stop wondering if you should tell someone.

Stop giving up because no one will do anything.

Stop thinking you should be PHYSICALLY assaulted and VERBALLY berated at your job.

Stop thinking that having intense anxiety and depression surrounding your workplace is NORMAL.

It is not okay. This is not what we signed up to do.

You are a wonderful, caring, amazing person who has the biggest heart for wanting to help little people....

but don't you dare think that it is OKAY to be ABUSED and TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF at your workplace.

We would never tolerate it in any other area of our lives. This is no different.

If you have teacher friends, check on them.

If you're a parent, please ask your child EVERY DAY what happened at school that day. Please speak up for the well-being of teachers. We are trying so damn hard for your kids. You are more powerful than you realize. You can help protect our teachers. You have the power to call our school systems to something better.

We have GOT to do better.

Teachers, you're amazing and when I leave the classroom, I will still always have your back for as long as I live.